Pillow Talk: 101

Use of the word “daddy” in or out of the bedroom. I am father of three beautiful young women.  I am proud of them. In my late 20’s I remember my wife at that time, called me “daddy” during love making.  I was not completely turned on with use of that word for obvious reasons.  I tried to overlook it, but it just didn’t work for me.   I later asked other fathers how they felt about use of that word in the bedroom.  The majority of us concurred that it just didn’t work for us.  Like fingernails scrapping against a chalkboard, use of that word didn’t sit well with me.  How does one separate the two?  On one hand, my daughters called me daddy and then my wife, at that time, called me, “daddy” in the bedroom.  I could not remain aroused and I asked her to never call me that again.  Now, decades later, the use of the word, “daddy” was actually something that I ask for.  Could be because my daughters are now grown.  I don’t know, but I am okay with it nowadays.  Now fast forward to my former wife, who I asked to call me “daddy”.  I think she had a problem with it.  It sounded awkward coming from her, so I told her if she was uncomfortable with it, she didn’t have to do it.  However, I believe I’ve gotten over the stigma, so I wouldn’t mind if my future lover calls me, “daddy” in or out of the bedroom.  So ladies, let me ask you this.  Is use of the word, “bitch” okay with you in the bedroom?  What’s your opinion?  I’d like to know.