PORN TO BE WILD….Ladies, do you get upset if you catch your man watching porn? Fellas, do you find yourself sneaking to watch porn?  If the answer to both questions is yes, someone needs to sit down and talk.  Ladies, men watch porn because we are visual creatures by nature.  Believe me when I tell you it doesn’t mean that he loves you any less, or desires other women, in fact, watching porn stimulates the male mind in ways that will ultimately bring you pleasure.  Think about this, where do most men learn about the birds and the bees? Their fathers, the streets, and in some cases, their mothers, but that’s another topic.  As a father of male children who are now adults, I found it slightly difficult to go into explicit detail about, oh how should I say…the grimy aspects in the art of love making.  Now I am sure some will say porn isn’t love making, but allow me to further explain.  Whenever a guy gets the “talk”, he is left with an enormous void of unanswered questions.  Unfortunately, it’s a little embarrassing to ask these questions and the only place a guy winds up getting educated on this matter is from porn.  Now, I will admit some men’s expectations will be extremely distorted, and they won’t be able to separate fantasy from reality, but for those of us that know how to separate the two, get ready for some experimenting because the brain is like a sponge.  And after all, if he pleasures you, and is pleasured in the process, it’s a win-win.

Porn offers the down and dirty act that whether some admit it or not, we all crave and desire to partake on some level.  What’s your fantasy?  Are you kinky?  What do you like that you feel others may find taboo?  S&M, amateur videos, orgies, cuckold, cum shots, BBBW, foot fetish, hairy pussies, you name it, it’s out there.

And now recent studies have shown that more and more women are watching porn with their mates, and some of them even watch it alone.  I personally love when a woman is uninhibited, open minded and easy going enough to enjoy watching porn.  So ladies, I encourage you to watch porn with your man.   I guarantee you won’t make it past the first 20 minutes.  The sensuality of it all is the observation of watching someone else fuck.  Watching the pleasure enjoyed by two complete strangers is sexy; it’s as natural as breathing.  So go on ladies, watch porn with your lover.  Explore your fantasies. Role play.  Enjoy each  other, laugh together, play together, get turned on together, and get your fuck on.