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cel-lu-lite (noun) persistent subcutaneous fat causing dimpling of the skin, especially on women’s hips and thighs.

I know millions of women worry and dread cellulite, but ask any man if he honestly cares about it, and you’ll get a resounding, “NO!”  Men do not give a fcuk about cellulite.  As a matter of fact, that shit look good on a fat ass.  I don’t know how or when I was introduced to it, but somewhere along the line, this mark of a “grown ass women” became sexy as fuck to me.  There are tons of products on the market to rid the body of cellulite, but I say, ladies please stop wasting your money.  Embrace your tiger stripes.  Basically, it indicates the growth of your booty.  The girth of your ass exceeded your body’s accommodation, resulting in what’s called cellulite.  So take my advice ladies, men are visual creatures, and I will guarantee there is no man on the planet that is turned off but the sight of tiger stripes.  Lawd, the sight of a woman on her knees shaking her ass with some cellulite gets me harder than Chinese arithmetic.  Next week I’ll delve into another “grown ass women’s” rite of passage.  Until then, stay up…stay horny.

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Hey ladies, it’s been a while, I know.  So here’s this for this Happy Hump Day.  Is it a deal breaker if your man doesn’t perform oral sex?  Let’s stack it up.  He’s just your type.  Attractive, hard working, protective, a sense of humor, stylish, God fearing, good with kids, makes good money, but he just doesn’t like to go south of the waistline.  Some men were taught to never eat anything they can’t cook or fry, LOL.  Nowadays, fellatio is so commonplace the phrase, “Lick it before you stick it”, are words to live by. Hopefully, men have realized if they don’t handle their business, they will lose their girl like a set of keys.  And men, same question.  Would it be a deal breaker if she didn’t perform oral sex?

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Would you consider yourself Ride or Die?  If your spouse was diagnosised with a serious ailment and/or life threatening disease, would you stick by their side, or break-out?  Let’s turn it up a notch.  No one could blame you if you were diagnosised with cancer, but let’s say your spouse found out they have an STD or HIV, and it was evident they were unfaithful which led to them being exposed. Now what would you do?

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Happy Hump Day!


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I have a friend who has a friend that recently got a job.  At her new job, she was separately approached by two male co-workers.  Male co-worker #1 pressed hard and invited my friend’s friend to his house for drinks.  She arrived at his house, chilled a while and ended up letting him eat her pussy.   The next day she tells my friend they didn’t have sex, but she did let him go down on her.  After knowing male co-worker #1 about 4 days, she later regretted going over his house, twice.  On her second visit the very next day, they fucked.  My friend’s friend believes having oral sex is not actually sex.  Oh really? Is this the mentality of a younger generation?  Uh..missy, oral sex is sex.  Okay, what say you?  Do you consider oral sex as sex or not?

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Should a woman use her physical assets to get what she wants in life? I already know the answer to this question, but I have a friend with a friend who had a rough time paying her rent and was on the verge of being evicted.  When asked why doesn’t she ask the men who love her big titties so much for financial help; the desperate friend had nothing to say.


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Do you have to always marry your soulmate?  My condolences to the entire Porter family.in the passing of Kim Porter.  I recently read P. Diddy’s comments about Kim, and her being his soulmate.  Obviously I don’t know the details of their relationship, but I was raised to hopefully find and marry your soulmate.  So if Kim was Diddy’s soulmate, why didn’t he marry her?  What’s your definition of a “soulmate”?  I’d like to know.

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I, for one have never experienced it, but does a woman with a long tongue bring more pleasure to oral sex? I am so curious to find out.  What about people who have tongue piercings?  Does a tongue piercing heighten fellatious activity?   Ladies, gentlemen….what say you?

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Happy Hump Day!

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Pillow Talk: 101

Use of the word “daddy” in or out of the bedroom. I am father of three beautiful young women.  I am proud of them. In my late 20’s I remember my wife at that time, called me “daddy” during love making.  I was not completely turned on with use of that word for obvious reasons.  I tried to overlook it, but it just didn’t work for me.   I later asked other fathers how they felt about use of that word in the bedroom.  The majority of us concurred that it just didn’t work for us.  Like fingernails scrapping against a chalkboard, use of that word didn’t sit well with me.  How does one separate the two?  On one hand, my daughters called me daddy and then my wife, at that time, called me, “daddy” in the bedroom.  I could not remain aroused and I asked her to never call me that again.  Now, decades later, the use of the word, “daddy” was actually something that I ask for.  Could be because my daughters are now grown.  I don’t know, but I am okay with it nowadays.  Now fast forward to my former wife, who I asked to call me “daddy”.  I think she had a problem with it.  It sounded awkward coming from her, so I told her if she was uncomfortable with it, she didn’t have to do it.  However, I believe I’ve gotten over the stigma, so I wouldn’t mind if my future lover calls me, “daddy” in or out of the bedroom.  So ladies, let me ask you this.  Is use of the word, “bitch” okay with you in the bedroom?  What’s your opinion?  I’d like to know.

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Happy Hump Day!

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Ladies, what are your thoughts on this.  Men…I’d like to hear from you, too.  So ladies, if your man, not someone you’re having casual sex with, but your man/spouse/significant other, had a premature ejaculation, would you hold that against him?  Would you secretly ridicule him?  If he  came too quick would you would take credit and charge it to how good your pussy must be?  Would you talk to him putting him at ease and research the cause and solution to his problem?  There could be a million reasons why he came too fast. Men, if you went down on your woman, and she came too quick would you beat your chest like a caveman and give praise to your almighty tongue, or chalk it off as one of those things that happen every once and again?  Bottom line…always, always, always talk to your partner.

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