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Pillow Talk: 101

Use of the word “daddy” in or out of the bedroom. I am father of three beautiful young women.  I am proud of them. In my late 20’s I remember my wife at that time, called me “daddy” during love making.  I was not completely turned on with use of that word for obvious reasons.  I tried to overlook it, but it just didn’t work for me.   I later asked other fathers how they felt about use of that word in the bedroom.  The majority of us concurred that it just didn’t work for us.  Like fingernails scrapping against a chalkboard, use of that word didn’t sit well with me.  How does one separate the two?  On one hand, my daughters called me daddy and then my wife, at that time, called me, “daddy” in the bedroom.  I could not remain aroused and I asked her to never call me that again.  Now, decades later, the use of the word, “daddy” was actually something that I ask for.  Could be because my daughters are now grown.  I don’t know, but I am okay with it nowadays.  Now fast forward to my former wife, who I asked to call me “daddy”.  I think she had a problem with it.  It sounded awkward coming from her, so I told her if she was uncomfortable with it, she didn’t have to do it.  However, I believe I’ve gotten over the stigma, so I wouldn’t mind if my future lover calls me, “daddy” in or out of the bedroom.  So ladies, let me ask you this.  Is use of the word, “bitch” okay with you in the bedroom?  What’s your opinion?  I’d like to know.

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Happy Hump Day!

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Ladies, what are your thoughts on this.  Men…I’d like to hear from you, too.  So ladies, if your man, not someone you’re having casual sex with, but your man/spouse/significant other, had a premature ejaculation, would you hold that against him?  Would you secretly ridicule him?  If he  came too quick would you would take credit and charge it to how good your pussy must be?  Would you talk to him putting him at ease and research the cause and solution to his problem?  There could be a million reasons why he came too fast. Men, if you went down on your woman, and she came too quick would you beat your chest like a caveman and give praise to your almighty tongue, or chalk it off as one of those things that happen every once and again?  Bottom line…always, always, always talk to your partner.

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Happy Hump Day!

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It’s Mother’s Day, you were served breakfast in bed, had a day at the spa, given a gorgeous bouquet of flowers, given that one gift you’ve been hinting about for months.  You dined at your favorite restaurant, maybe headed out to the lounge for a few drinks.  When you two got home, the sitter had the kids in bed.  A perfect ending to a perfect day.  No stress, no worries, no drama.  No ass?  Do you feel obligated to give him some after a long day?  Yes or no??

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Happy Hump Day!

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Would you introduce a past lover to your man/woman? While catching up with an old friend, who was also a former lover more than twenty three years ago, who said she had some business to attend in Atlanta and before she left she wanted to stop by the crib and see me.  I was a little hesitant.  How was I going to explain this to my wife? Do I go forward with the introduction and purposely omit the fact that this woman and I had slept together decades ago?   Is it disrespectful to have this woman in our home?  I had to look at it from another perspective.  How would I feel if my wife invited an old friend to our home who was a former lover?  How would I feel?  How would I react if their secret got out?  In a mature relationship, some might argue that open communication is always best.  Some might argue an opposition.  Some may hold true to the adage, “once friends, always friends”, regardless of their current relationship status. Some might even feel that once they are in a truly committed relationship, reaching back, looking back or maintaining old friendships, especially if they are former lovers, is a surefire recipe for disaster.  Now back to my story.  So this old acquaintance actually tried to guilt and persuade me into seeing it her way that since she and I were very old friends, our friendship should not be disregarded simply because I was married.  Ladies, guys, what’s your opinion on this?  I am curious as fcuk.

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